You cannot be in love with anything or anyone. Love is not something that you get from things or people. Love is not something you attain. You cannot get love.
Love is a state. You simply are in a state of love, or you are not. Just like you are either happy or you are not. It is one or the other.
When you are living in a state of love you are living your natural truth. Essentially, you are love. This is what makes it feel so good, so right. Being in love is exactly that… being in Love.
It doesn’t matter what comes up in your life, easily go with the flow of whatever is happening. Don’t react as if this or that shouldn’t be happening. Act instead. Act consciously too. For example, watch your inner turmoil begin as you choose to simply watch and allow the event, for whatever it may be. Feel the essence of what is really there instead. Leave spaces empty and watch how uncomfortable you will begin to feel. Inside you will meet your fear, a ripping or tearing… let it be. Go through it. Feel it completely. Don’t fight it, just live it through. See the difference in you. Know the power you hold. Your impulse to fill a void has been subsided and your fear of living has now died. Now you are truly living.
Feel whatever is there. Use your senses to stay connected to your life. Forget about your memories and thoughts. Forget about trying to figure things out. Forget about it all.
Instead… pay attention. See the opportunities as they arise. Simply watch. Know what is available to you at all times. Know the moment it appears. Your life is beginning to change in this instant because you are changing. You are changing who you are by allowing life to happen as it wishes.
The only control you need is the control you have over your self. Being in control is having power. Use this power to become an enlightened person. Observe yourself… from the movements you make to the expression on your face. Know what you are doing the moment you are doing it. Become aware of yourself. Know that you are in a room, know that you are sitting, or standing. Feel your body, feel your presence.
Don’t ever get discouraged. That is resistance. Simply realize that this moment is new, and so are you. Begin anew.
